We live in a college town in the midwest. I work in IT and my wife works in a grocery store. 
Take home pay - $3563.57 (This is after contributing 20% of my income to the company’s 401k plan)
My wife makes about $1200 per month, but we don’t factor it into our budget. I am not sure if that is a good thing or not. I am open to suggestions. 
Here is our monthly budget based on my income only - 
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